Founder’s Syndrome. The first thing to decide when going to co-op mode is whether or not to start a new farm or invite people to one you’re already on. This can lead to what we in the communities movement call “Founder’s Syndrome.” Basically, many communities are founded by one person, and it can become challenging as they try to attract new members who have different ideas.
In Stardew Valley, if you invite people to join an existing farm, it can be beneficial because there is already an income base and less start-up labor, but can also be challenging if the founder is resistant to the suggestions of other players.Â
Income-Sharing. The default game mode is income-sharing, so whenever a player sells a parsnip or buys an upgraded axe, this affects the total money available to all players. This sounds idyllic in theory, but what happens when 3 people want to each get a bigger backpack for 4000g each but you only have 5000g? Do you talk about your purchasing desires together and approve each transaction? Do you keep track of 1/3 of the income each? Decisions, decisions!
Group Decision-Making / Division of Labor. There are several quests in the game that require various items. How are you going to spend your precious time? Are you all going to be all-around balanced communards or is one person going to be in charge of crops while another gathers resources from the mines? All of these things can be discussed to your heart’s content. Sound like a lot of work before you even get to the work? Welcome to community life!
Mods. One of the great benefits of Stardew Valley are the fan-made modifications, aka “mods”Â
Multiple Spouses: While not everyone in community is polyamorous, ethical non-monogamy is generally more accepted in income-sharing and egalitarian communities since relationships can be untethered from housing and economics. The Multiple Spouses mod allows you to marry multiple people, live with multiple people, and more!
Diverse Stardew Valley: You might notice how white most of the characters are in the original Stardew Valley. This is unfortunately not unlike many intentional communities founded by white folks. You can add the Diverse Stardew Valley mod. This mod adds ethnic, cultural, gender identity, and body type diversity to the original characters.
Conclusion. There are certainly many ways in which Stardew Valley is not anything like real-life community, from dungeon monsters to magic teleportation, but playing in co-op mode does require that folks practice the most central parts of community living: communication and cooperation! It might also reveal things about yourself and others that would be really good to know prior to actually living together. Oh, and don’t forget to also have fun while you’re at it.‍